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"A compelling mix of science, social critique, and pragmatism, Quitting: A Life Strategy upends the dominant narratives about giving up. Sometimes stepping back really is the right way to move forward in life." ¡ªCal Newport, New York Times bestselling author of Digital Minimalism and A World Without Email
¡°The world needs more quitters. In her fabulous new book, Julia Keller lays out the compelling case for quitting¡ªexplaining why we should quit sooner and more often, and also how to quit. Quitting is as entertaining as it is important.¡±¡ªSteven Levitt, New York Times bestselling author of Freakonomics
"Julia Keller has flipped the script on one of the most maligned human acts: quitting. Before you decide to stick with it, gut it out, or see it through, consider the stories and evidence in Quitting: A Life Strategy and give yourself permission to walk away."¡ªBruce Feiler, New York Times bestselling author of Life Is in the Transitions
"Julia Keller's Quitting offers a timely corrective in a world that's forever telling us to do (and endure) more. This book is a celebration of people learning their limits, standing by their boundaries, and forging new paths when old, back-breaking ways of being have failed them."¡ªDr. Devon Price, author of Laziness Does Not Exist
"If you¡¯re thinking about quitting a job or leaving a marriage, don¡¯t¡ªat least not until you have read Quitting: A Life Strategy. It¡¯s a thoughtful book that challenges conventional wisdom about giving up. In fun, readable prose, Julia Keller blends scientific research with stories of real-life decisions to show how quitting can actually be a powerful way to take control of your life."¡ªJoseph T. Hallinan, Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist and bestselling author of Why We Make Mistakes
"Julia Keller weaves science, pop culture, and scholarship into a forceful and often funny book that finally settles the argument: Winners DO quit. Keller's book proves that whether you're an impetuous Jerry Maguire type or react with the speed of a slime mold, quitting will be the launchpad into the liberating realm of 'what's next.'"¡ªAmy Dickinson, nationally syndicated advice columnist ("Ask Amy") and New York Times bestselling author
"In her beguiling mix of uncanny insight, scientific evidence and human stories, Julia Keller debunks America¡¯s deeply ingrained faith in perseverance¡ªin a book that's just unquittable."¡ªElizabeth Taylor, co-author of American Pharoah: Richard J. Daley - His Battle for Chicago and the Nation
"Forget grit¡ªthe key to a joyful productive life may be quitting: a job, relationship, city, or any situation that has run its course. This fascinating, quick read reframes the history, myths, and stigma around failure. Exhilarating, subversive, and freeing."¡ªLindsay Powers (Amazon Best Book of the Month, editor's pick) |
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Chapter Page
Introduction xi
Part I Quitting: It's All in Your Head
Chapter 1 What Birds, Bees, and Gymnasts Can Teach Us about Giving Up 3
Chapter 2 The Neuroscience of "Nope-I'm Done" 20
Chapter 3 Jennifer Aniston Quits Her Job: The Fine Art of Saying, "So Long" 37
Part II How "Quitting" Became a Dirty Word-and Why It Matters
Chapter 4 Peddling Perseverance 53
Chapter 5 Luck and Letting Go: Things. Just. Happen. 75
Chapter 6 Making a Better World-One "I Quit" at a Time 91
Part III Giving Up: A How-to Guide
Chapter 7 The Quasi-Quit: A Pause and a Pivot 105
Chapter 8 Quitting Your Way to Success on the Job 122
Chapter 9 Quitter's Guilt: What If I Disappoint the People I Love? 143
Chapter 10 Quitting Out in the Open 162
Chapter 11 A Community of Quitters 177
Afterword 197
Acknowledgments 205
Notes 207 |
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