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PART 1
FUNDAMENTAL TECHNIQUES IN HANDLING PEOPLE »ç¶÷À» ´Ù·ç´Â ±âº» Å×Å©´Ð
1 IF YOU WANT TO GATHER HONEY, DON'T KICK OVER THE BEEHIVE
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2 THE BIG SECRET OF DEALING WITH PEOPLE
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3 HE WHO CAN DO THIS HAS THE WHOLE WORLD WITH HIM. HE WHO CANNOT WALKS A LONELY WAY.
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PART 2
SIX WAYS TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU
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1 DO THIS AND YOU'LL BE WELCOME ANYWHERE
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2 A SIMPLE WAY TO MAKE A GOOD IMPRESSION
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3 IF YOU DON'T DO THIS YOU ARE HEADED FOR TROUBLE
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4 AN EASY WAY TO BECOME A GOOD CONVERSATIONALIST
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5 HOW TO INTEREST PEOPLE »ç¶÷µéÀÇ °ü½ÉÀ» ²ô´Â ¹æ¹ý
6 HOW TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU INSTANTLY
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PART 3
TWELVE WAYS TO WIN PROPLE TO YOUR WAY OF THINKING
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1 YOU CAN'T WIN AN ARGUMENT
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2 A SURE WAY OF MAKING ENEMIES-AND HOW TO AVOID
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3 IF YOU'RE WRONG, ADMIT IT
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4 THE HIGH ROAD TO A MAN'S REASON
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5 THE SECRET OF SOCRATES
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6 THE SAFETY VALVE IN HANDLING COMPLAINTS
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7 HOW TO GET CO-OPERATION
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8 A FORMULA THAT WILL WORK WONDERS FOR YOU
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9 WHAT EVERYBODY WANTS
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10 AN APPEAL THAT EVERYBODY LIKES
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11 THE MOVIES DO IT. RADIO DOES IT. WHY DON¡¯T YOU DO IT?
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12 WHEN NOTHING ELSE WORKS, TRY THIS
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PART 4 NINE WAYS TO CHANGE PEOPLE WITHOUT GIVING OFFENSE OR AROUSING RESENTMENT
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1 IF YOU MUST FIND FAULT, THIS IS THE WAY TO BEGIN
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2 HOW TO CRITICIZE-AND NOT BE HATED FOR IT
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3 TALK ABOUT YOUR OWN MISTAKES FIRST
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4 NO ONE LIKES TO TAKE ORDERS
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5 LET THE OTHER MAN SAVE HIS FACE
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6 HOW TO SPUR PEOPLE ON TO SUCCESS
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7 GIVE A DOG A GOOD NAME
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8 MAKE THE FAULT SEEM EASY TO CORRECT
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9 MAKING PEOPLE GLAD TO DO WHAT YOU WANT
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When we are not engaged in thinking about some definite problem, we usually spend about 95 per cent of our time thinking about ourselves. Now, if we stop thinking about ourselves for awhile and begin to think of the other man? good points, we won? have to resort to flattery so cheap and false that it can be spotted almost before it is out of the mouth.
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I RECENTLY attended a dinner party in New York. One of the guests, a woman who had inherited money, was eager to make a pleasing impression on everyone. She had squandered1 a modest fortune on sables2, diamonds, and pearls. But she hadn? done anything whatever about her face. It radiated sourness and selfishness. She didn't realize what every man knows: namely, that the expression a woman wears on her face is far more important that the clothes she wears on her back. (By the way, that is a good line to remember when your wife wants to buy a fur coat.)
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You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you. Yet I know and you know people who blunder7 through life trying to wigwag8 other people into becoming interested in them. Of course, it doesn? work. People are not interested in you. They are not interested in me. They are interested in themselves¡ªmorning, noon, and after dinner.
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